Can You Overuse Your Rabbit Vibrator?
Is Rampant Rabbit overuse a valid issue?
Many women do not use vibrators because of their fear that they will not be able to enjoy sex in the same way or that they will become de-sensitised. Many women use vibrators and worry about this too. Can you really overuse your rabbit vibrator though? This page contains my thoughts on the subject.
Are Rabbit Vibrators Addictive?
Some women really love their vibrators and so much so that they describe them as addictive. Does this actually mean they are addicted?
If you like something a lot you are going to want to use it/eat it/play with it as much as you can. This doesn’t necessarily mean you are addicted to it though. Addiction involves a build up of tolerance. You need more and more of it to become satisfied which generally isn’t true with vibrators. Instead you tend to work out just how to get yourself off and do it pretty quickly. Even if you use your vibrator several times a day, there are probably times when you aren’t obsessing over it.
In reality anything can be “addictive” but that word gets thrown around too much and the likelihood of becoming addicted to a vibrator is slim.
With anything new and amazing, people tend to indulge a LOT and that it wears off to normal use. It’s like a new game or new building set. You spend ALL your time obsessing over this new thing – building/playing and then after a while you just have small doses of it because the initial excitement has worn off. You may still love it and use it regularly but you aren’t as obsessed over it.
If You Need To Use A Vibrator During Sex, Is There Something Wrong With You?
Not all women are blessed with the ability to get off through penetrative sex or even just through the touch of their partner. Some women need extra help or extra stimulation to give them an orgasm. This doesn’t mean there is something wrong with them, it just means they need more help.
Of course some women may be indulging in their rabbit vibrator a little too much (particularly if it is a recent purchase) and “feel” that without their vibrator they won’t enjoy sex as much…but how will they know unless they try without it? If they don’t want to right now or anytime in the foreseeable future that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with them or their lovemaking sessions with their partner – it just means they REALLY LIKE their rabbit vibrator.
Of course there could be something wrong with the sex they are getting – maybe not enough foreplay etc but that can easily be rectified with communication.
Do Vibrators Ruin Sex?
They can ruin it if you let them. And by ruin I actually mean someone getting uppity about its use! Just because your partner chooses to use a rabbit vibe and wants to use it during sex doesn’t make you inadequate or less of a man/woman – it just means they really like their toy!
If anything vibrators can enhance sex and add a new tool to the mix. Don’t be scared of the vibrator…enjoy it, it’s fun!
Will I Become De-Sensitised If I Use My Rabbit Vibrator Regularly?
Well this one is up for debate. I really do not think it is something to worry about. If you *think * sex isn’t feeling as good because you have been using your rabbit vibrator quite a bit then back off a bit. Sensation will come back – a rest is a good thing sometimes. This is MY experience though and that of many others but its not the only experience.
Some articles across the web suggest you could damage your clit from all that stimulation. I do not think this is possible and highly unlikely. If it were, I would think vibrators would have to come with a warning sign at the very least. I would also think you would have to be using it 24/7. Even if you are using your vibe 24/7, I still do not believe you will damage your clit.
Can I Become Too Sensitive From Using A Vibrator Regularly?
Some articles suggest that you can rub your clit raw with a vibrator or cause it to become highly sensitive. I think this is crap too. You must be doing something quite rough in order to end up hurting yourself and a few days of leaving it well alone would suffice surely? Not to mention again – I am pretty sure manufacturers of these things would have to have a disclaimer of some sort.
Some women just happen to have highly sensitive clitorises and thus wouldn’t be able to use a vibrator on it anyway. But that really doesn’t have anything to do with a vibrator making it sensitive in the first place.
Not Knowing How To Climax In Any Other Way
What if you had your very first orgasm with a rabbit vibrator? Maybe you have worked out how to have an orgasm with a vibrator (because it does make things a lot easier for some women) and just haven’t figured it out without one. It could be as simple as that.
Rather than blame the vibrator, it might be worth having a proper look at your use, your experiences and everything else all in one.
Yes, in some cases, you might be overusing that rabbit vibrator a tad bit. Just cut back. Generally numbness/loss of sensation is temporary. Give yourself a rest.
A vibrator isn’t the be all and end all of orgasm. It might feel like it if its all you have ever known but it really isn’t all there is. You might just have a psychological barrier against orgasming without a vibrator because you have never done it. That barrier might actually not be a barrier and might be very appropriate thinking. You might simply be someone who needs the extra stimulation.
I think excessive use is a rarity. I think most people know when they are overdoing something and might need a break.
If you are really REALLY enjoying your rabbit vibrator – keep on! Enjoy it. I am sure eventually those everyday sessions will probably calm down.
I wouldn’t worry about rampant rabbit overuse but that is just me.
DISCLAIMER: This article is for information purposes only. It contains my opinions and nothing else. I am not an expert or a professional. If you think you might have something seriously wrong or are worried see your GP.